Hi all, Just want to say a big thank you to my darling wife. She holds down a full time job 10am to 6pm Monday to Friday and works bloody hard, comes home cooks dinner and gets tomorrows lunches ready, cleans the house, washes dishes, does laundry, looks after the kids, a 10 year old son and a 2 year old daughter and me . She is buggered each night and just falls into bed only to woken latter because I have s*** myself, gets up cleans me and back to sleep,sometimes this happens 2 or 3 times a night. And she NEVER complains, we don't get any help from agencies or government she does the lot on her own. What makes me upset is that on the rare occasion she wants to go out with her friends for a night out I get cranky, I think I need a good kick up the arse . I must be a selfish barstard and I hate myself for it, but I have never made her stay home i just get s***ty, and that's not fair, so I am doing my best to just shut the mouth when she wants to get out and have a break for a few hours. Anyway sweetheart I would be lost without you and all the uncomplaining support you give me. LOVE you so much
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Butiki, that was amazing to hear! Hats off to your wife, she's doing a great job! Is there any possibility of her seeing this or do you want to keep it private?
she can see it if she want's, but she really is not into forums, but I will probably show her . She's from The Philippines so therefore is very private about our home life, we have been married for 12 great year's and have 2 wonderful kids, life cant really get any better
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What an emotional read this is......your post is so heartfelt and honest. Your wife does sound like an amazing lady, you sure are blessed with her.
She loves you and her family unconditionally and you know she does too....and this is why she never complains, im sure. I can understand you and why you are this way with her also...maybe you miss her whilst she is out at work and want her to be with you in her free time rather than out with friends?
Tell her you miss her and let her go with your blessing...show her that you can love her this way too. You will probably still feel like moaning to her but try and resist because she will soon be back home with you....
What makes me upset is that on the rare occasion she wants to go out with her friends for a night out I get cranky, I think I need a good kick up the arse . I must be a selfish barstard and I hate myself for it, but I have never made her stay home i just get s***ty, and that's not fair, so I am doing my best to just shut the mouth when she wants to get out and have a break for a few hours. Anyway sweetheart I would be lost without you and all the uncomplaining support you give me. LOVE you so much
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butiki, think about these sentiments in advance on that rare occasion. Think s***ty, don't say it. As for doing your best, please try to do better.
LOL @ the unhappy face..aww well i think you do well because you at least recognise your error and want to show how you appreciate her.....your in the right direction
Well it's 10.08pm here and the boss is going out with her friends, but it's ok. The kids are in bed, I've done my BM and in bed, so no problem I was asked what time should she be home and my answer was it doesn't matter as long as you have a good time and forget about us for a few hours and enjoy urself. So there, she can go out and alls good
Hi all, Just want to say a big thank you to my darling wife. She holds down a full time job 10am to 6pm Monday to Friday and works bloody hard, comes home cooks dinner and gets tomorrows lunches ready, cleans the house, washes dishes, does laundry, looks after the kids, a 10 year old son and a 2 year old daughter and me . She is buggered each night and just falls into bed only to woken latter because I have myself, gets up cleans me and back to sleep,sometimes this happens 2 or 3 times a night. And she NEVER complains, we don't get any help from agencies or government she does the lot on her own. What makes me upset is that on the rare occasion she wants to go out with her friends for a night out I get cranky, I think I need a good kick up the arse . I must be a selfish barstard and I hate myself for it, but I have never made her stay home i just get s***ty, and that's not fair, so I am doing my best to just shut the mouth when she wants to get out and have a break for a few hours. Anyway sweetheart I would be lost without you and all the uncomplaining support you give me. LOVE you so much
That's all I have to say, thanks to everyone for listening
Dude, I am not into all this emotional bullcrap, you're a low para, get off your arse and cook the dinner for when she comes home, if you have an accident, get off your arse and clean it up yourself, you have the use of your hands, make the god damn lunches yourself, wash the dishes and look after the kids and for the love of the fabrication of the dude nailed to the cross, stop acting like a quad, para's like you piss me off, it's the reason why I don't mix with people with disabilities out here in the real world, they're too god damn all about the crap you just driveled.
You want to be a man, then be one and stop all this whinging about the crap you won't get off your arse to do, you're sitting down, not helpless, if not, buy a bowl and go into the nearest corner and dribble into it.
i think you are blessed to have a woman who gives so much without nothing in return. sure a rare breed of people. some women do have this special quality. i would not be harsh on you but if i where her i would really appreciate you to reciprocate as best you can. Maybe her break will be having quality time with you not away from you. you can start today by doing the dishes . A healthy relationship is take and give in my humble opinion.