I thought i would revive this early thread so other members can add to it. I know we have a very positive community here so im sure everyone has something to add.
Remember achievements dont have to be life changing, it can be something like mastering transfers, becoming more independent..taking a new interest up etc
This a good thread that got buried deep in all the other good threads! Thanks for reviving it Lαrα, it'd be nice to see some of our members achievements
Thats great andrew!..and is proof that life goes on and you can in fact continue to work and find happiness too. I love how you say your marriage to you lovely lady was the best of all..very sweet indeed
So what has been my biggest achievement? It has to be my first trip alone to come to meet DJ in Canada. I have had a huge fear of flying all my life...I have avoided family holidays because of this fear. I did try one time with family when i went on a two hour flight to Spain pre SCI. It made me so ill that i vowed that nothing would get me on a plane for the rest of my life.......
When DJ invited me to Canada,,my stomach sank and then i said 'yes i'd love to come' and thought to myself 'hell girl, now you've set yourself a challenge!' I didn't tell any of my family members I was coming.
I planned my trip...booked the flights then went to visit my doctor, firstly regarding anything he can prescribe for me to help with my anxiety and then secondly what advice/precautions I needed to follow to avoid a DVT as I had already suffered with 3 blood clots since my SCI.
I organised assistance at the airport and that was that..lol This was the biggest achievement of my life..the flight was 7.5 hours long and I was proud that I did this all myself..and travelled alone.
I intend to make this be the first of many achievements that I will make certain I achieve....I will find my next one and go for it!!! (Lαrα)
Lara wow!!! I wish I was as brave as you to travel by plane alone!
I drove down to Boston last August to attend Journey Forward ( like Walk it off in Toronto) for a month. I was alone the whole month except one weekend where my brother-in-law and sister-in-law came for a visit. Between treatments and sleeping, I would go shopping, take off for the whole day discovering the scenic East Coast around Boston or just hanging out at a beach. I couldn't believe the amenities they have! The first beach I visited at, I hadn't even brought a bikini to tan in, I was in jeans!! Not very chic but I figured no one would recognize me. ???? There was even a 'welcoming committee' they arrived with a beach chair and even pushed me along the boardwalk and onto the beach. The lifeguard told me to make a sign if I needed anything or when I was ready to leave!! Amazing service, all it was all free! My husband flew down and we drove home together but it was a great month despite being there alone. It was something I had to do, along with the workout at JF three times a week. Thank god for email, Skype and FaceTime!
Upon my return I returned to work, gradually working up from two half days per week to 4 full days. I have been laid up for the past month due to my skiing injury but when I get back to work, I am going to give three days a try as four was too tiring. My rehab centre has an excellent socio-professional support team and they have been very instrumental in this success. There are still details to figure out as I won't be able to keep my post if I can't work full time, but my employer is great and are going to support me in finding me something else that will work, scary but I have to have faith that all will work out.
I'm five months into my injury. Before the injury I was in the process of building an ultralight - a Challenger 2. I fully intend on continuing the build. Since it's experimental I can fabricate the hand controls. I also have a hand control plane on order (Sky Arrow 600). I very much intend to continue flying.
I'm five months into my injury. Before the injury I was in the process of building an ultralight - a Challenger 2. I fully intend on continuing the build. Since it's experimental I can fabricate the hand controls. I also have a hand control plane on order (Sky Arrow 600). I very much intend to continue flying.
That's awesome dlevy, it'd be nice to see the finished product
I am coming up on 30 years post injury so the list is long but some of the highlights are: Went back to college after I got out of the rehab, graduated with honors. Have been continuously employed since then (plus mixed in grad school) now a partner in an accounting firm. Very active in skiing and cycling plus do a fair amount of volunteer time helping newly injured people learn the ropes. Have a great group of friends all over this country and get to travel quiet often. Mt biking in Moab coming up in 3 weeks...
Its great to see that you have a long list of achievements dirtybert It proves that life goes on after SCI...motivation and determination gets everyone a long way plus the desire to enjoy life, regardless
The mentoring is a real good thing you do for newly SCI's , you will have experience and insight!
Post by dannygilman on Jan 29, 2014 7:37:30 GMT -8
I am not trying be "Danny the Downer". My first achievement after my SCI.. feeding myself! Yes, I needed all kinds of splints, arm supports etc... This was (is) a huge milestone in my life after several months dependent being fed by someone. My second achievement was maneuvering my powered wheelchair independently. It was so nice to go from room to room as I wished, and position myself where "I wanted" be -- not where by caregiver wanted be.
When I finished rehab in 1968, I didn't do anything for a couple of years then accepted a job at Goodwill Industries. I was married a year later in 1971. In 1974, I was selected Goodwill Worker of the Year out of Columbus, Ga. I got a call about a couple of weeks later that I had been selected as the National Goodwill Worker of the Year so had to go to Washington, DC (touring) and New York City to receive the award and speak to some 800 people in attendance. I spent the next year traveling the US and speaking. Now I do interesting stuff like volunteering with the National Park Service.
And that's that...
Note: This is the first time I have ever told this story on any forum in which I post to.