And the more we draw on our reserves, the more we realize that we've only just begun "scratching the surface".
In the beginning, there were times when I thought I couldn't push my chair one more time...I was mentally, emotionally & spiritually exhausted. Then I began replacing the " I can't " in my mind, with " just do it...". After meeting challenge after challenge, I began building up my confidence. After awhile, there was no stopping me.
The ironic thing I noticed about tapping those reserves...the more you used, the more you had. It was no longer about "just getting by...just surviving". Meeting those challenges gave me confidence...and the confidence made me stronger.
There's one thing that's always stuck in my head. If you tell yourself " I can't ", then you're right...you can't. It's a self-fulfilling prophesy. There's more than enough people that will tell you that you can't do this, or you can't do that...don't listen to those people. I choose the opposite...I just tell them "sit back and watch...because I can...and I will "
I truly believe that confidence breeds strength. And there's only one way to build confidence...grab the bull by the horns.
Excellent advice and philosophy lowpro, very much so. I have challenged myself so much more since my injury and expect more for myself too. I do feel stronger and have more resolve than i ever did before. I was always determined before SCI but more so these day... I feel more challenged, certainly but we have to rise to it :-)
And the more we draw on our reserves, the more we realize that we've only just begun "scratching the surface".
In the beginning, there were times when I thought I couldn't push my chair one more time...I was mentally, emotionally & spiritually exhausted. Then I began replacing the " I can't " in my mind, with " just do it...". After meeting challenge after challenge, I began building up my confidence. After awhile, there was no stopping me.
The ironic thing I noticed about tapping those reserves...the more you used, the more you had. It was no longer about "just getting by...just surviving". Meeting those challenges gave me confidence...and the confidence made me stronger.
There's one thing that's always stuck in my head. If you tell yourself " I can't ", then you're right...you can't. It's a self-fulfilling prophesy. There's more than enough people that will tell you that you can't do this, or you can't do that...don't listen to those people. I choose the opposite...I just tell them "sit back and watch...because I can...and I will "
I truly believe that confidence breeds strength. And there's only one way to build confidence...grab the bull by the horns.
Just do it...
You couldn't have said it any better lowpro! Oh and did you know "Just do it" is the Nike slogan? I like it!
And the more we draw on our reserves, the more we realize that we've only just begun "scratching the surface".
In the beginning, there were times when I thought I couldn't push my chair one more time...I was mentally, emotionally & spiritually exhausted. Then I began replacing the " I can't " in my mind, with " just do it...". After meeting challenge after challenge, I began building up my confidence. After awhile, there was no stopping me.
The ironic thing I noticed about tapping those reserves...the more you used, the more you had. It was no longer about "just getting by...just surviving". Meeting those challenges gave me confidence...and the confidence made me stronger.
There's one thing that's always stuck in my head. If you tell yourself " I can't ", then you're right...you can't. It's a self-fulfilling prophesy. There's more than enough people that will tell you that you can't do this, or you can't do that...don't listen to those people. I choose the opposite...I just tell them "sit back and watch...because I can...and I will "
I truly believe that confidence breeds strength. And there's only one way to build confidence...grab the bull by the horns.
Just do it...
You couldn't have said it any better lowpro! Oh and did you know "Just do it" is the Nike slogan? I like it!
Oh, yeah...I was wearing their "JUST DO IT" t-shirts, when they first started using the slogan, back in 1990 (I think). That was my mantra, way before then...I just never thought of registering it.
Oh, yeah...I was wearing their "JUST DO IT" t-shirts, when they first started using the slogan, back in 1990 (I think). That was my mantra, way before then...I just never thought of registering it.
Oh haha no way! It is too bad that you couldn't register it but it's the thought that counts.
I don't know about stronger, but has Certinally made me a lot less tolerant and I tend to tell people what I think, where as before my injury I would never say anything that might offend someone no matter how much of a goose I thought they where.
Yes it most certainly does - I was faced with a snowboarding accident 15 years ago - was just 19 at the time - It definitely slowed me down but has not stopped me non the less - I crave challenges whether its physical or the mental challenge of how to do something no one else has done with my kinda disability - I luv to create design and build prototype disability products....Competitive Sprint kayaking lead me down this road... as I had to find a way to race these skinny light weight kayaks - It lead me to composite and graphite products to create my own 3d scanned composite bucket seating. I held the title of fastest in my class for 3years in all of Canada - mainly due to the seating I designed - since then I have been going non stop creating concepts and ideas for various racing applications for persons with disabilities and a lot of personal goals and projects you can see a few at www.adaptiveseatingproducts.com Check us out and see what im into !
I have found that the mind has had to adapt over the years - I know I look at things that other abled bodied do and try to figure out how can I do that !!! if there is a will...there is always a way !! a little engineering and prototyping and anything is doable.
I am also majorly into Flying - I own 2 hovercrafts and an ultralight I just picked up last month. Im looking for other enthusiasts.
So long story short I do way more then most and its all because of my disability as I probably never would have pushed myself to accomplish sooo much - every Day I make a list and accomplish it !
I have found that the type of persons/mindsets I come across varies depending on the disability and support group around them. I find that most are very Strong minded ! Some just need a boost and to be shown they can achieve their goals if approached right. I kinda find myself being this person in a lot for disabled friends lives...but like I keep telling everyone - you must overcome your fear of the unknown...life is short - Live it to its fullest with what you got left - And ALWAYS BE PROUD of WHO and WHAT YOU ARE !! for no one in life you come across is any better then you ! We all have our own demons to face...whether your abled bodied or not. anyways there is my rant ! lol
jimmyt..you can rant away anytime because this is a great mindset to have and the only way forward! Where theres a will there is sure a way! Its great how you have put your creativity into practical solution too!
Indeed always be proud...no matter what..hold your head high and look people in the eye with confidence because as you say no one else is any better than you or I!
It has made me a more thoughtful, kinder person than I was pre-injury and I now appreciate the little joys of life..Slowed me down where I can smell the roses and that I sorely needed...I take nothing for granted anymore and instead of seeking elusive sheer happiness I seek mere contentment..That's good enough for me....But it is still a tough, pain-filled life and over the years I've accepted that part and have no illusions that will change until my time in this realm is up.....
I don't know about stronger, but has Certinally made me a lot less tolerant and I tend to tell people what I think, where as before my injury I would never say anything that might offend someone no matter how much of a goose I thought they where.
Since my illness and SCI, I have also felt less tolerant and more likely to go off at the mouth. I think there is a loss of emotional resiliency when so much of our time and energy is spent to do things that used to be easy, not requiring much effort or thought. We can strive to gain perspective, and self-control is a good character trait!
It has made me a more thoughtful, kinder person than I was pre-injury and I now appreciate the little joys of life..Slowed me down where I can smell the roses and that I sorely needed...I take nothing for granted anymore and instead of seeking elusive sheer happiness I seek mere contentment..That's good enough for me....But it is still a tough, pain-filled life and over the years I've accepted that part and have no illusions that will change until my time in this realm is up.....
I must admit jackflash that it too has helped me appreciate life more and i also seem to worry about things less, Some things that i would have once worried about at one time i dont now.
I agree with the thought kilg0retr0ut had (being 'chosen' to have this because we are stronger in crazy). I don't think this has made me stronger. I do believe it has made me a little more tolerant towards others. You never know what kind of battle someone else is going through. 'Just do it' and 'get on with it' are two phrases I love. My injury is L5/S1(but I believe my injury is S1and below) so I am able to walk, but it's difficult, more like a shuffle with a limp and I'm on my feet for 50 hours a week at work. Some weeks are better than others, my ankles swell, my balance sucks, my heels are constantly throbbing but I refuse to give up. I will not let CES define me in any way shape or form. My favorite quote is this 'it's not whether you get knocked down; it's whether you get back up'
My favorite quote is this 'it's not whether you get knocked down; it's whether you get back up'
i love it. i have heard a saying nearly identical. "its not about getting knocked down, its choosing to get up, dust yourself off and keep moving forward" like Lαrα said some people choose to put there life on hold. and they are not moving forward. it makes me sad too. and i also like how Knight put it. "feel like i can take on anything, i just might piss myself doing it now!" could not agree more. no matter what life puts in my way ill get over it or around it. btw im going to have to steal that quote if you dont mind. lol