BACKGROUND: I use the bucket lined with trash bag, that came with my bedside commode, to put used closed kit catheter bag with urine in it and for trash for the kit container bag. I also use it for other trash like orange peels, apple cores, junk mail, etc.
My mom usually dumped the urine in toilet then put the empty bag back in bucket. We actually have 2 buckets from when my grandmother was alive. So when one bucket got full, my mom would switch the buckets and, when she was able to, she would tie up the bag from the full bucket and put it in garbage can in garage.
QUESTIONS My mom is in the hospital since yesterday. So I have encountered issue that I don't know how to handle without her. How do I carry the full, tied up bag and what do I do with it when I can't get into garage due to a step down from inside house to get there?
I realized that this would also be a relevant question when I eventually live by myself. My parents are 78, turning 79 this year, and they won't last forever. So, when independent, how do I take out much bigger kitchen garbage bag that will also be heavier?
Also, how do I reach dishes, glasses, etc. in cabinets, then how do I was them when I can't reach kitchen sink and facet well enough to wash them? I will be living in studio apartment that was added onto my parents' house many years ago for my grandmother who's has long since passed away. It does not have a dishwasher, even if it did, not everything can go in dishwater like certain pots, pans, skillets.
A program in my locale, called the Brain and Spinal Injury Program, is spending $25,000 to remodel the apartment so I will have a large enough bathroom for me to get into and it will have a shower I can just roll into. Also they are adding a new exit with ramp for safety issues like a fire or something. But there was no additional room in budget to modify kitchen sink so it would be feasible for me to do dishes.
So, how do you do this stuff when you are living alone. What about other stuff that I haven't thought of?
KarenH I don't really do much of what you mentioned myself since I live with my family and rely on them. I think as a paraplegic you'll be fine, it's just getting used to doing everything on your own initially that'll seem tough since you've been so reliant on your family like me. You're definitely going to have to rearrange things in the kitchen and other places to make things more accessible and easier to get to. The bathroom adaptations should be great help and hopefully you'll have enough left over to do small changes to the kitchen to make it more accessible.
By the way, I like your status! Glad to see that the forum has helped you feel better
KarenH, I have been meaning to get to this post all day and just didnt get the chance, im sorry. I will get my brain switched on and see what I can think of..then post in the UK morning!
Well, the point is moot now. My mom went to hospital (she's fine and home) during which time I had no help. After 3 days, I couldn't even sit up in bed to self-cath. Also, my bed sores came back with vengeance. I called rescue, who took me to ER. I had 101° temperature and my average is 97.6. So, I have been admitted as of Saturday.
After my mom's trip to hospital, I've come to conclusion that she cannot help me anymore. So, social workers are trying to find a place for me.
With the sores and needing a place to go, I could be here awhile.
Well, the point is moot now. My mom went to hospital (she's fine and home) during which time I had no help. After 3 days, I couldn't even sit up in bed to self-cath. Also, my bed sores came back with vengeance. I called rescue, who took me to ER. I had 101° temperature and my average is 97.6. So, I have been admitted as of Saturday.
After my mom's trip to hospital, I've come to conclusion that she cannot help me anymore. So, social workers are trying to find a place for me.
With the sores and needing a place to go, I could be here awhile.
KarenH, I am so sorry . How mobile are you and what is your daily routine? This is so frustrating for you but try and keep your spirits up, come here and vent and get anything off your chest. How are the services there? Can they place you in accommodation that allows for you to have some independence and carers come?
Well, the point is moot now. My mom went to hospital (she's fine and home) during which time I had no help. After 3 days, I couldn't even sit up in bed to self-cath. Also, my bed sores came back with vengeance. I called rescue, who took me to ER. I had 101° temperature and my average is 97.6. So, I have been admitted as of Saturday.
After my mom's trip to hospital, I've come to conclusion that she cannot help me anymore. So, social workers are trying to find a place for me.
With the sores and needing a place to go, I could be here awhile.
KarenH, I am so sorry . How mobile are you and what is your daily routine? This is so frustrating for you but try and keep your spirits up, come here and vent and get anything off your chest. How are the services there? Can they place you in accommodation that allows for you to have some independence and carers come?
Yes, social services is looking to place me in assisted living facility. So I will have my own room and be mostly on my own, but have help when I need it.
What makes me crazy is the facility will take my monthly disability check to help cover where Medicaid falls short. Then the facility will give me a small allowance a month of like $40, which sucks. Hopefully I will have some hidden funds from my lawsuit which settled.
I have to get to point of having my own place so I will hopefully manage to have more than $40 at end if month!