Cancer hospitals

I have seen the treatments. As I watched my oldest brother his last two years. The chemotherapy never did a thing for him except kill all of his immune system, and he wasted away, he went from 240lbs down to 110lbs. I stayed up with him one night after he had returned home from the hospital for the last time. He himself had his doctor tell his wife and son that he was in remission. He wasn't, he asked me to help them out for awhile after his passing, which I did. He was told that he needed another round of chemo by his doctor, he asked the doctor if he thought that it help,the doctor said that he thought that it might. My brother asked if I have the treatment will I quit being sick from chemo? The doctor said no, I can't say that. My brother asked the doctor, if you were me and been through what I have, would you take another treatment? The doctor said no. My brother then said, OK, let me go home and die in peace. The doctor said OK. He told me that all the chemotherapy did for him was speed up his time left here and made him feel worse than the cancer ever did. This is just what I know from what my brother told me and I saw for myself. I'm the same age now as he was then. I have a feeling for what he and his family went through. I would not personally put my family through what happened to my brother's family by following what had been recommended at the beginning of his cancer. They were all full of hope, he never improved, his quality of life was gone from his first treatment on. Never a day that he wasn't sick. Sorry everyone, I have been on kind of a rant here, it's just that sometimes life happens and it's not good or kind. So if given my options, I will make my choices after long and careful thoughts along with my loved ones.