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Standing at sons wedding Feb 18, 2018 16:44:33 GMT -8

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Post by lavender on Feb 18, 2018 16:44:33 GMT -8

So wondering if my knees are in a brace of some sort would I be able to stand and dance with my son at his wedding. I know he would need to hold me up. I am am a t 11 12 para. I do have hip movement .

Just wondering if it is possible or if its been done.

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nathanau Global Moderator STAFF Posts: 312 Post Likes Received: 251 Date Joined: August 2015 Injury: T-11 Son Date Injured: 7th April 2015 Member is: Offline Send PM	Standing at sons wedding Feb 18, 2018 17:58:52 GMT -8 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Back to Top Post by nathanau on Feb 18, 2018 17:58:52 GMT -8 I sure hope so Lav, I couldn't think of anything more awesome for you.

vintage Advanced Member Posts: 2,576 Post Likes Received: 1,757 Date Joined: November 2016 Injury: T9 incomplete Date Injured: March 15, 2014 Member is: Offline Send PM	Standing at sons wedding Feb 18, 2018 18:17:43 GMT -8 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Back to Top Post by vintage on Feb 18, 2018 18:17:43 GMT -8 This man’s injury may be higher than yours. www.nydailynews.com/life-style/paraplegic-veteran-stands-dance-soulmate-article-1.2007480

regular79 Junior Member Posts: 65 Post Likes Received: 44 Date Joined: August 2017 Member is: Offline Send PM	Standing at sons wedding Feb 19, 2018 6:17:48 GMT -8 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Back to Top Post by regular79 on Feb 19, 2018 6:17:48 GMT -8 it should be very possible, you could practice with even standing up with a walker or if you can go to local rehab and use their bars

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lavender Member Posts: 129 Post Likes Received: 155 Date Joined: January 2017 Injury: T 11,12 Date Injured: July 8 2014 Member is: Offline Send PM	Standing at sons wedding Feb 19, 2018 12:30:14 GMT -8 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Back to Top Post by lavender on Feb 19, 2018 12:30:14 GMT -8 Just wondering if anyone has done this or is it crazy idea that is sure to fail

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Standing at sons wedding Feb 19, 2018 14:33:33 GMT -8

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Post by tetra on Feb 19, 2018 14:33:33 GMT -8

I recall one or 2 examples of people who have done that. One was a dad, one the bride. Only you can answer and only by practicing. Does your son live close enough to try it together? If not the idea gets chancy as your partner needs confidence in his ability to keep you both safe.
Are you able to stand on your own at a walker? If not my own opinion is it's more trouble than it's worth- the expense, time and PT involved getting a well-fitted brace, etc, etc. Just think it through until you are satisfied.

I have danced with a sturdy guy who felt confident keeping me up, but I'm also incomplete and can use a walker. It was really fun. In 10 years I only found that one person willing to give it a go. My own guy does not feel steady enough.

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Standing at sons wedding Feb 20, 2018 15:41:02 GMT -8

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Post by tls on Feb 20, 2018 15:41:02 GMT -8

KAFO's would work. Kafo stands for knee, ankle, foot orthotic. I tried kafo's at Craig Hospital several years ago. If you have the hip function you should be able to stand on legs that are locked straight. I just tried kafo's the one time. I have since regained enough knee function to walk with afo's. Hope you have a great time at your son's wedding.

beth New Member Posts: 35 Post Likes Received: 32 Date Joined: December 2016 Injury: T 5/6 Date Injured: 2006 Member is: Offline Send PM	Standing at sons wedding Feb 22, 2018 9:23:09 GMT -8 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Back to Top Post by beth on Feb 22, 2018 9:23:09 GMT -8 How exciting your son getting married. Enjoy the day whether you stand or sit!
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lavender Member Posts: 129 Post Likes Received: 155 Date Joined: January 2017 Injury: T 11,12 Date Injured: July 8 2014 Member is: Offline Send PM	Standing at sons wedding Feb 22, 2018 16:52:19 GMT -8 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Back to Top Post by lavender on Feb 22, 2018 16:52:19 GMT -8 I did order some off Amazon, all I need to do is stand for the dance. My plan is to surprise him. By working with my husband. Also got my first grand child on the way next month, other son.

lavender Member Posts: 129 Post Likes Received: 155 Date Joined: January 2017 Injury: T 11,12 Date Injured: July 8 2014 Member is: Offline Send PM	Standing at sons wedding Feb 22, 2018 16:53:24 GMT -8 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Back to Top Post by lavender on Feb 22, 2018 16:53:24 GMT -8 I did order some off Amazon, all I need to do is stand for the dance. My plan is to surprise him. By working with my husband. Also got my first grand child on the way next month, other son.
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Standing at sons wedding Mar 25, 2018 6:11:53 GMT -8

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Post by roosterillusion on Mar 25, 2018 6:11:53 GMT -8

Hi Lavender,

What a thoughtful idea! I just wanted to share that I recently got married, and the greatest gift of all was just having my Dad there. He couldn't stay the whole night, and he wasn't able to dance with me, but just having him there for a few hours meant the world to me. Whatever you choose to do, your son will be thrilled that you are there to celebrate his special day with him.

I wish you all the best!

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Standing at sons wedding Jun 11, 2018 16:42:41 GMT -8

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Post by lavender on Jun 11, 2018 16:42:41 GMT -8

Well I did it not sure how to post the video, I was able to dance with both of my sons to the song, do I make you proud, my son chose it for our dance. I have never seen so many people crying . It was amazing. I just used regular leg braces and then locked them and my son stood me up. Danced with my husband also for our 35 wedding anniversary, which is today. To ed sheerhan song thinking out loud words were so perfect.

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roosterillusion New Member Posts: 24 Post Likes Received: 11 Date Joined: September 2017 Member is: Offline Send PM	Standing at sons wedding Jun 17, 2018 6:23:35 GMT -8 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Back to Top Post by roosterillusion on Jun 17, 2018 6:23:35 GMT -8 What a wonderful update! Way to go, Lavender I bet that meant the world to your sons and your husband.
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Standing at sons wedding

Post by lavender on Feb 18, 2018 16:44:33 GMT -8

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Post by regular79 on Feb 19, 2018 6:17:48 GMT -8

Post by ladylimpsalot on Feb 19, 2018 6:35:15 GMT -8

Post by lavender on Feb 19, 2018 12:30:14 GMT -8

Post by tetra on Feb 19, 2018 14:33:33 GMT -8

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Post by beth on Feb 22, 2018 9:23:09 GMT -8

Post by lavender on Feb 22, 2018 16:52:19 GMT -8

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