This has got to be the most poignant video about Spinal Cord Injury that I have ever watched. We are always working so hard at being positive but it was touching to hear the views and experiences of those presenting the video.
It was emotional to watch and hit a nerve (sorry for the pun!) and this is one of those videos that you can share with family/friends if they want a preview into what it feels like for someone with Spinal Cord Injury. I am incredibly fortunate to have upright mobility but not everyone with SCI does and one comment was about sitting and watching others. Well for me, this is the big issue because even though i can walk (limited and with assistance) I cannot do the activities that i did before and instead have to watch others do what i could do once.
Watch the video...it isnt a pity party,,its just saying it as it is,.,..and that ok too...being positive is clearly important but Hell...there is a lot to NOT be happy about too!
For me it did change my life but not for the bad.I wasnt to bummed about being paralyzed. I just had to figure out how i did everthing i used to a different way.Once that was done i moved on with my life,i always thought i would never meet a women who would love me for me but i have and she is wonderful and we are engsged to be married.I really dont think i would of met her any other way.I have a grest life and being paralyzed doesnt define who i am it is just another way of getying around.
For me it did change my life but not for the bad.I wasnt to bummed about being paralyzed. I just had to figure out how i did everthing i used to a different way.Once that was done i moved on with my life,i always thought i would never meet a women who would love me for me but i have and she is wonderful and we are engsged to be married.I really dont think i would of met her any other way.I have a grest life and being paralyzed doesnt define who i am it is just another way of getying around.
Welcome to the forum wheelzz66 Firstly, thankyou for coming to share your thoughts and secondly congratulations on your engagement!!
Since my condition is not SCI but rather peripheral neuropathy, paralysis has set in gradually over several years and I had time to adapt. Over the years I've gone from crutches to AFO braces finally to manual chair. I am an active person. With some adaptations, I can still Scuba dive, take underwater pictures, do my volunteer work at the the science center, give lectures, teach (I'm still a very active scuba instructor).
What I do miss are long walks on the beach & surfing...but somehow those things have been overshadowed with my other activities.
Fortunately, pain is not a major issue, when I do feel discomfort a couple of Gabapentrine tabs knocks that out