Ever since i was a child, i have never appreciated 'perfect' and realised that in fact, nothing in life is perfect. All we can do is strive towards ideals and everyone's ideal is different anyway.
The biggest favour we can do ourselves in life is to accept that its ok to not be perfect..I like different and quirky anyways!
I wanted to put this quote here for discussion and its mostly in relation to the emotional aspect of Spinal Cord Injury. What has happened has happened, we cant beat ourselves up forever.