Dating a Quadriplegic-General and sexuality

Yes she can. It’s not perfect but definitely accessible. Any advice is appreciated. I don’t want to scare her off by inviting her too early but also maybe waiting too long makes her think her injury has to do with it.

Thanks for the reply. I guess we’ll go on a few more dates then maybe invite her over for dinner or something. What are some good date ideas. I can pick her up and her chair fits in my car.

She has no hand function and one wrist works. So looking for ideas?

Thanks

Thanks for the responses so far. Very useful and I did my best to follow the advice. So we met up a couple more times and the topic of sex came up. She actually brought it up and said she is looking forward to it. Of course I will ask her how it will be best so we both have a great experience.

I am trying to make this sound as generic and impersonal as possible but I honestly have no idea where to start.
Such as what positions a c5 quadriplegic can do best, if she should lie down or partially sit up, how she may be scared of not pleasing me?

Not sure what to ask. I guess it’s one of those thing that will happen and I’ll learn but any advice again would be great.

Thanks J

Hello JSP. What is your name, interests and location? Your profile seems to be rather bare for somebody who is seeking intimate advice from other people. You will have to forgive me for questioning you, but we get weirdoes on here from time to time who go on and on about sex without giving any profile details, then they abruptly disappear never to be seen again. It's as if discussing topics of a highly sexual nature, with many replies and advice, gives them some kind of weird thrill.

You say your girlfriend bought up the topic of sex, just like that, and yet there is no mentions of feelings of love. If you fall in love, then you won't need our advice about sexual matters. You will be able to discuss it with each other and without fear of rejection. She will tell you what she can and can't do, or what she'd like to do. life is an experiment. We are all bound up in this test-tube we call existence.