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Im doing speeches.... Oct 19, 2013 10:25:44 GMT -8

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Hi shawzfun...dont think i said this?

Lara im not sure what you mean I out weighed this???

But absolutely, i respect both your opinion and decision.....i was only giving some encouragement and my perspective also. My post was written with only good intent and certainly not to offend, thats just not my way.
Im sure you have made a decision that is right for you.....i was just trying to say nothing is set in stone....and that there are many aspects to parenting.....

i apologise for any misunderstanding...

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Im doing speeches.... Oct 19, 2013 10:35:31 GMT -8

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Oct 19, 2013 10:14:38 GMT -8 DJ said:

Thanks shawzfun, you're right, there is a big difference when it comes to being male vs. female but all the best to you too!

Thanks, the more Im talking about it, the more I want one even more all over again. I had it set in my mind I wasnt but I technically still have time. I still dont know how I'd do it but just remember it IS possible,. Keep your head up and I wish both of us the best. lol...

I also gotta consider lifestyle changes if we did have a baby. No more being able to up and go and Id have another lil one to worry about... Theres alot it would affect but I'll fig everything out one of these days.
I hope your dreams come true and you get everything you want.....

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Im doing speeches.... Oct 19, 2013 10:43:33 GMT -8

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Oct 19, 2013 10:25:44 GMT -8 Lαrα said:

Hi shawzfun...dont think i said this?

Lara im not sure what you mean I out weighed this???

But absolutely, i respect both your opinion and decision.....i was only giving some encouragement and my perspective also. My post was written with only good intent and certainly not to offend, thats just not my way.
Im sure you have made a decision that is right for you.....i was just trying to say nothing is set in stone....and that there are many aspects to parenting.....

i apologise for any misunderstanding...

You said it at the end oof yiur post and I thought maybe I offended you. Just a misunderstanding and thank you for your positive words. I know I could still change my mind bc I still have time. Just not much time, Im 31 and fiance is 43. I dont know how much time I have left. Plus Ive been on BC for about 7 yrs and dont know if that would affect anything. Im just gonna step back and think about it without saying for certain Im not gonna have one. Theres just SO mucch to consider....

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Im doing speeches.... Oct 19, 2013 10:53:10 GMT -8

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Post by shawzfun on Oct 19, 2013 10:53:10 GMT -8

Change of topic...
Im speaking to an entire high school and Im extremely nervous. Up until now Ive spoken to groups as large as 15 kids, this is a whole new ball game. I have 10 minutes to make my point and spread my very important message. Ive been working on my speech for a few days so now I just gotta memorize the thing. I just wanna save lives.. Wish me luck...

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Im doing speeches.... Oct 19, 2013 11:05:08 GMT -8

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Oct 19, 2013 10:59:15 GMT -8 Lαrα said:

Good luck! im sure you will do a great job.....i personally would be very nervous lol i remember doing presentations at college and i was soo nervous lol

Luckily for me, doing presentations were relatively easy but talking to an entire high school is a different story. Im a bit nervous for that. lol....

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Im doing speeches.... Oct 20, 2013 10:08:13 GMT -8

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Oct 19, 2013 11:06:48 GMT -8 DJ said:

Woah shawzfun, that sounds intense! I can imagine how nerve wracking it can be but keep practicing and you'll be fine

Good luck! Let us know how it goes

Oh I will. Im gonna tape it maybe I can share the video... I hope I do ok.......

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Im doing speeches.... Oct 20, 2013 10:57:10 GMT -8

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Post by kilg0retr0ut on Oct 20, 2013 10:57:10 GMT -8

Tear it up shawzfun

I was the kind of kid who would have probably have a "won't happen to me" attitude.
Being in the party crowd was big in my high school, It's only luck that kept me out of your situation.
It could have been me in the same place many times. If you can reach just one kid it makes it worth all your work. lt would be difficult for me to open myself up like you do, keep up the good work.

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Im doing speeches.... Oct 20, 2013 11:05:26 GMT -8

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Oct 20, 2013 10:57:10 GMT -8 kilg0retr0ut said:

Tear it up shawzfun

I was the kind of kid who would have probably have a "won't happen to me" attitude.
Being in the party crowd was big in my high school, It's only luck that kept me out of your situation.
It could have been me in the same place many times. If you can reach just one kid it makes it worth all your work. lt would be difficult for me to open myself up like you do, keep up the good work.

Good point!....

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