I am so sick of meeting people who are like, "Oh, just pray and God will heal you," or "You'll walk again someday, maybe even run!" I wish they would do their research and realize how f-ing stupid they sound! I can walk with a walker very short distances, but I GUARANTEE I will not be running any marathons EVER. People don't realize that yes, I do have fairly good function in my legs, but that does not mean I have the function in my hips to correctly stabilize and control my legs. People don't think of how many muscles it actually takes to walk properly. They think it's just your leg muscles you need when in reality, your hip muscles and back muscles are what stabilize you. Without stability, you're not doing anything! I'm so fed up with people telling me this sh** over and over again when they have no freaking idea what it entails to lift a half-dead leg with a hip you cannot feel! And just because I can stand up while holding onto a wall DOES NOT mean I can walk!
Having people tell me this crap makes me not want to stand up in public, even though standing is good for me and relieves pressure off my tailbone and lumbar spine. I am tempted to throw my shoe at the next person who says this kind of ill-mannered, uneducated bullsh** to me!
I had to have a rant about it! If you want to be involved in my recovery, do some research and stop trying to sound smart when you are so utterly ignorant!
(Sorry there is some bad words in this rant; I censored it for you.)
I hope you feel better after that lol This is the place to get it off your chest Knight!
I think your thread shows exactly how the AB world is very unfocused and/or understanding of a spinal cord injury. There is a serious lack of awareness.
The complexity if how we are affected seems to be undressed in general. When i have explained in detail to one of my friends the response is always that they had no idea what was involved.
If you can move your legs then wow its less understood lol
There is a popular series here on TV that is viewed by millions and one of the characters became injured...and they used the story to dramatatise and had him choosing the right to die..? WTH!
They also don't realise the implications of " paralysed below the waist" . . . there's a bloody sight more below the waist that's affected, not just legs . . .
They also don't realise the implications of " paralysed below the waist" . . . there's a bloody sight more below the waist that's affected, not just legs . . .
Very much so. Not walking is the least of my issues!
Knight, I know how you feel but they're only saying it to be nice In all honesty if I never had my accident I'm sure I'd say exactly the same and I'm sure most of you would too. I didn't even know what a spinal cord injury was prior to my injury! I also never realized all the other complications there are with spinal cord injuries/disabilities. I see what's not working and I assumed that was it.
As hobbit mentioned, I know for sure that people don't know my other SCI related complications other than my paralyzed hands and legs but again, I was no different to them prior to my injury. It is pretty annoying knowing something for certain but having people tell you otherwise but that's just life. We gotta smile at them, say thanks for the positive words and move on.
I am so sick of meeting people who are like, "Oh, just pray and God will heal you," or "You'll walk again someday, maybe even run!" I wish they would do their research and realize how f-ing stupid they sound! I can walk with a walker very short distances, but I GUARANTEE I will not be running any marathons EVER. People don't realize that yes, I do have fairly good function in my legs, but that does not mean I have the function in my hips to correctly stabilize and control my legs. People don't think of how many muscles it actually takes to walk properly. They think it's just your leg muscles you need when in reality, your hip muscles and back muscles are what stabilize you. Without stability, you're not doing anything! I'm so fed up with people telling me this sh** over and over again when they have no freaking idea what it entails to lift a half-dead leg with a hip you cannot feel! And just because I can stand up while holding onto a wall DOES NOT mean I can walk!
Having people tell me this crap makes me not want to stand up in public, even though standing is good for me and relieves pressure off my tailbone and lumbar spine. I am tempted to throw my shoe at the next person who says this kind of ill-mannered, uneducated bullsh** to me!
I had to have a rant about it! If you want to be involved in my recovery, do some research and stop trying to sound smart when you are so utterly ignorant!
(Sorry there is some bad words in this rant; I censored it for you.)
I'm sorry if I upset some members here, but god will not heal us or anyone else for that matter, it annoys the crap out of me when I hear that. Again I apologize if I have offended anyone
Post by ladylimpsalot on Jan 16, 2014 10:14:36 GMT -8
I have the same problem or question. As a born again Christian, I was taught to believe that God heals. Yes, my injury is significant, but the Lord Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead! However miracles are called miracles because they don't often happen. And I, too, am having trouble keeping the faith.
I have the same problem or question. As a born again Christian, I was taught to believe that God heals. Yes, my injury is significant, but the Lord Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead! However miracles are called miracles because they don't often happen. And I, too, am having trouble keeping the faith.
It's hard to believe when we're in a situation like this eh ladylimpsalot?
I have the same problem or question. As a born again Christian, I was taught to believe that God heals. Yes, my injury is significant, but the Lord Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead! However miracles are called miracles because they don't often happen. And I, too, am having trouble keeping the faith.
Understanding totally where you are coming from ladylimpsalot..Sometimes its hard to see why we are given the journey that travel. Im not bitter about my injury or resentful in any way....it happened and thats it.
I know everyone deals with it differently and some better than others but for me, i accept that it happened and nothing will change that fact so i just deal with everything in my stride and stay positive
I have the same problem or question. As a born again Christian, I was taught to believe that God heals. Yes, my injury is significant, but the Lord Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead! However miracles are called miracles because they don't often happen. And I, too, am having trouble keeping the faith.
Understanding totally where you are coming from ladylimpsalot..Sometimes its hard to see why we are given the journey that travel. Im not bitter about my injury or resentful in any way....it happened and thats it.
I know everyone deals with it differently and some better than others but for me, i accept that it happened and nothing will change that fact so i just deal with everything in my stride and stay positive
I was just responding to the rant. Not particularly bitter myself.
Oh i wasnt referring to you or anyone inparticular ladylimpsalot When i think of this i always remember a guy i was in rehab with, after rehab is was almost AB and he still complained 'why me' ...he always comes to mind especially when we had complete quads with us too
When i think of this i always remember a guy i was in rehab with, after rehab is was almost AB and he still complained 'why me' ...he always comes to mind especially when we had complete quads with us too
Oh i wasnt referring to you or anyone inparticular ladylimpsalot When i think of this i always remember a guy i was in rehab with, after rehab is was almost AB and he still complained 'why me' ...he always comes to mind especially when we had complete quads with us too
Why not me? Things could always be so much worse! Life just kind of happens!